If your family is from Mainland China, Singapore, or Malaysia, it is likely that they use Simplified Chinese. Ask to double check! Or just use the English side 🙂
One Deck – $24.99
Four Decks – $74.97 (4 for the price of 3!)
Ordering for a group of friends, colleagues, or loved ones?
Buy 3 decks & get the 4th free. ♥️
The discount is automatically applied when you add 4 decks to your cart.
Each order is hand-packed with love by my parents and comes with three stickers, two in English and one in Chinese. They’re perfect for a water bottle, laptop, or phone case.
“We started with one question, ‘What is the most impactful book you ever read?’ and it led to a 1+ hour conversation.”
– Ryan Lum
“It’s the first time we had such a meaningful mom-daughter bonding experience. She finally didn’t feel the pressure to ‘parent’ me.”
– Judy Zhu
“Over the moon that this exists. We’re finally sharing stories and questions we’ve carried for years, but just didn’t know how to ask.”
– Chrislyn Choo
Use Parents Are Human To Learn Chinese
“I always tell my students on day one of class that when you speak to someone in their mother-tongue which is not yours, you are immediately saying I love you. All the more so if there are language/cultural/generational barriers within a family.”
– Spencer Baron (Chinese Teacher)
About The Game
How to Play
🍵 Find a comfortable space together to get cozy and curious.
👀 It is through our curiosity and wonder where we often discover that we are all more alike than we are different.
💬 You can play anywhere — over FaceTime, on the phone, or in-person.
📴 Put away distractions and focus on being present.
👂 Listen with your whole self and refrain from judgement.
❤️ Be open, honest, patient, and kind.
There are no “rules” although we have a few suggestions. The next time you talk to your family, you might:
1️⃣ Pick a Question Card. Every person answers the same card. Repeat.
2️⃣ Shuffle in Action Cards in between Question Cards.
3️⃣ Pick any card, then have the other person(s) respond as if they were you.
4️⃣ Lay all the cards across the table. Pick them up naturally and answer freely.
5️⃣ Pick a card that piques your curiosity. Talk about it over your next meal or send a picture over text.
🏆 Spending quality time together and getting to know your parents better = winning.
✨ We hope this game is a tool for you to spark a connecting experience with your Mom or Dad.
🤲 Want to skip a card? Want to spend the entire time talking about one card? Whatever it is… make it your own!
💪 Sometimes, all it takes is one step forward. Pick out the Question or Action card you feel is easiest and challenge yourself to reach out to your parents about it within the next week.
Frequently Asked Questions
All domestic orders within the United States will arrive within 1-3 days of shipping via USPS Priority Mail. International orders typically arrive within 1-3 weeks. We fulfill orders within 24 hours of your purchase!
All orders are shipped without a receipt, so don’t worry about the other person seeing how much you paid for it 🙂
Yes! Just email hello @ parentsarehuman.com immediately after placing an order with your gift message. We’ll print out your message and include it in the package.
Yes! Here are all the discounts we currently offer so you don’t have to go searching:
Yes! We’d be delighted to give you a discounted rate on our decks to thank you for helping so many people connect with their loved ones.
Please contact hello @ parentsarehuman.com to share your order quantity, and we’ll provide you with a coupon code based on your order size.
Yes! Please request a language here (https://go.parentsarehuman.com/requestlanguage), once we get to 50 of any language we’ll make it (and notify you if you leave your email). The current ranking:
Vote for your language!
Have another question? Email us at hello @ parentsarehuman.com or chat with us directly in the lower right hand corner 🙏