"I brought the deck home these past few days, and both times I’ve used it, I’ve learned way more about my parents in the thirty minutes we used the deck than the 24 years I’ve been on this earth and interacted with them."
Ruth Wu
Verified Customer
4.9 | 81,000+ Happy Customers
🗺️ A map to discover your family's story. Grow closer with every conversation.
Parents Are Human is your guide to connecting deeply with your loved ones before it's too late. With 70 loving questions and activities designed to inspire connection, compassion, and vulnerability, this deck helps you:
● Have conversations that bring you closer
● Discover untold stories, values, and dreams
● Build lasting empathy & understanding
If your loved ones are from Hong Kong, Macau, or Taiwan, it is likely they use Traditional Chinese, as do most overseas Chinese communities outside Southeast Asia. Ask to double-check!
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"I brought the deck home these past few days, and both times I’ve used it, I’ve learned way more about my parents in the thirty minutes we used the deck than the 24 years I’ve been on this earth and interacted with them."
Ruth Wu
Verified Customer
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What Our Customers Say
"We played for like three hours, and during those three hours were some of most peaceful and connected times that I would feel with my parents."
David Hu
Verified Customer
"Over the moon that this exists. We’re finally sharing stories and questions we’ve carried for years, but just didn’t know how to ask."
Chrislyn Choo
Verified Customer
"I used this deck over Thanksgiving and it was literally the most we’ve ever connected outside of eating together and hiking."
Lily Chen
Verified Customer
Customer Reviews
I have used this with deck my parents as well as with friends and other relatives and it has been absolutely wonderful to get to know each other better. I have learned such wonderful family stories and how my parents, relatives and friends see themselves and their lives. It has been a gift to learn more about them and share about my life as well.
This product is great. It gives me a chance to learn about my mom before she became a parent, and level up our adult relationship.
My MIL lost her husband about a year ago, right before our wedding. That's when I decided to purchase Parents are Humans to collect and cherish more memories with her. Last Christmas at a hospital, my MIL and I initiated our deepest and darkest (and sometimes the brightest) tales with this question on card- "What was the toughest decision you've made in your life?" To me, this card deck helps put my MIL in a whole, positively different perspective.
I often use this during our family dinners and it really opens up the conversations and allows us to learn more about each other. Highly recommend!!
We live on the other side of the planet from my parents, so my kids don’t get to see their grandparents as often as we’d like. But thanks to Parents Are Human (Korean edition), my 11-year-old has been playing with his grandparents over Zoom, and it’s been an incredible experience for all of us. My parents recently told me they feel like their Jung (정) with the kids has grown exponentially, which I had literally never heard them say to any of us. We are so grateful for this opportunity to connect across generations and distance in such a thoughtful, engaging way. Highly recommend this game to any family looking to bridge language, culture, and love.
I'm a first-gen Chicana with a partner outside of my culture. Using the Parents are Human deck was a beautiful way to kick off the new year and learn more about my mother-in-law. I am slowly building the courage to use it with my parents, but now I have the tools to create new meaningful memories. Thank you!
It really helped to create a closer bond with my parents. Also I had a mix up in my order and the customer service was impeccable!
I’ve heard of this deck for a while, but finally pulled the trigger during the Black Friday sale. My parents have always had great communication with us, but this deck was able to spark amazing conversations. We got through a few cards during a sitting, and can’t wait to keep going!
From the first few cards I could tell this product was worth the investment. It had us having more deep and meaningful conversations than we have had in nearly 20 years.
We are excited to see what further sessions bring. The first one inspired a truly loving and special evening together.
We are blown away. The company ethos and approach shows this comes from a place of love and compassion for others.
Amazing and worth more than money.
Mom liked the gift a lot!
Frequently Asked Questions
How long will shipping take?
We ship all orders within 24 hours of your purchase; same-day if ordered by 3 pm PT Mon-Sat. 📦
Domestic orders within the United States typically arrive within 1-5 days of shipping (depending how far you are from where we ship—San Francisco, CA), with many faster options available at checkout.
💡 Enter your shipping address at checkout for an estimated delivery date!
Orders outside the US usually arrive within 1-3 weeks.
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Every order is hand-packed by my Mom & Dad then delivered to the post office with the utmost love and care. 🫶
How accurate are your translations?
Instead of relying on a single translator, company, or service, we work with ~10 native speakers on average along with their loved ones to meticulously trans-create each card from English into another language.
This process takes a minimum of 6-8 months per language, with hundreds of combined hours spent to ensure that the nuances of each language are honored, that people from every relevant & major geographic location review the translations to make sure locals can understand, and every detail like the font, line breaks, and word spacing are the best possible choice.
We work with family teams so each prompt has been play-tested in a real dynamic between loved ones.
When you receive this deck, know that it is a token of love from many other families from your beloved culture.
We believe we have some of the best, most natural translations in the world. Feel free to preview any of our games in their entirety before purchasing by downloading one of our digital decks.
Do you have proof that this deck changes relationships?
We did an impact study with 210 verified customers who used Parents Are Human with their loved ones. They reported these results among other findings:
98.90% of them agree that playing Parents Are Human helped them discover something new about their parent(s).
98.41% of them agree that they immediately felt closer to their parent(s) after playing Parents Are Human.
97.35% of them agree that Parents Are Human made them more open and understanding towards their parent(s).
Will there be more languages in the future?
Yes!! We absolutely can't wait to make our game into more languages!
We have over 4,000+ requests at the moment and are prioritizing translations based on whichever ones gets the most requests.
Please vote for your language here and we'll notify you as soon as we start.
What if I decide it's not for me?
Our Happiness Guarantee is simple: we offer free returns on all products purchased on this website within 30 days and a 100% refund, no questions asked.
If you have a problem with your order (shipping mishaps, damaged/incorrect products, etc.), we will solve it, whatever it takes. Just reach out.
Thank you for your trust and support.
Rediscover Your Family
Have heartfelt conversations you’ll remember forever with Parents Are Human.
Sometimes we are so busy growing up we forget our parents are growing old.
We created a tool to get closer to our loved ones while we still can.
It opens up even the most reserved dads.
"I found out what my dad favorite food was growing up. That dude is the hardest layers to peel so the fact that I got something out of him that’s amazing."
Kadin Tran
Verified Customer
It gets moms to share stories they've never told.
"My mom told me things she never told another soul. Maybe my parents are more open than most but they were pretty vulnerable even in their responses to the “light” questions."
Grace Lin
Verified Customer
Learn more about your grandparents that you ever have.
"I would say I'm pretty close with my parents, and speak their language fluently, but I loved how the cards delved deeper into their past. I learned a lot more about my grandparents than I ever have!"
Zayda Ortiz
Verified Customer
Document life stories for future generations.
"We’ve been playing this game as a family with my father in law who has dementia. We are logging his responses so that we can share them in the future. Great way to connect! Love this game."
Kim Qua
Verified Customer
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