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Raise emotionally intelligent kids. Let your teen take flight & help them feel heard.
140 insightful questions and activities to nurture your teen’s independence in High School (Grades 9-12), co-created with families, teachers, and counselors.
Understand your teen’s perspective and needs
Strengthen your bond while respecting their individuality
Navigate important conversations, from independence and decision-making, to mental health, values, and future goals
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About Preorders (Instant Access)
We made 7 new connection decks this year and you can be one of the first to use them by preordering. We will give you digital access to the full deck right away!
The physical decks are being printed right now and we'll start shipping them to customers the week of October 12.
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If your order includes a deck that's on preorder, we'll ship your entire order together once everything is ready by default. This helps us reduce our carbon footprint and minimize packaging waste ♻️
We'll email you as soon as we ship your order, and you'll get instant digital access in the meantime.
Want your in-stock items sooner?
Just reply to your confirmation email or reach out to us at hello @ parentsarehuman.com. We're happy to ship any products we have on hand right away at no extra charge.
Every order comes with lifetime access to the digital version of your deck, so you can start using them and connecting immediately ❤️
About Teenagers Are Human
Teenagers Are Human is your guide to navigating the exciting rollercoaster of your teen's world in High School (Grades 9-12). With 140 insightful questions and activities, this deck helps you:
● Understand your teen’s perspective and needs
● Strengthen your bond while respecting their individuality
● Navigate important conversations, from independence and decision-making, to mental health, values, and future goals
Co-created with families, teachers, and counselors, this deck is designed to help you nurture your teen's independence while developing a strong, supportive bond.
Whether you're working to bridge the gap or making sense of their evolving journey, this deck empowers you to stay engaged and make your teen feel heard, one conversation at a time.
✔️ 110 Question Cards spark deep conversations that inspire connection, compassion, and vulnerability.
✔️ 30 Activity Cards add elements of courage and play into the experience.
✔️ Start with Level 1 (light side). Go to Level 2 (dark side) when it feels right.
✔️ Use the Check In and Go Deeper cards to adjust the level of vulnerability, ensuring everyone feels comfortable as you dive deeper.
✔️ Instructions & Best Practice Guide Cards to make the most out of your quality time together.
✔️ Lifetime Digital Access (Available Immediately) to all of the above.
❇️ Premium 1,200 GSM box & matte laminated to last for years to come.
♻️ Eco-friendly, 100% recyclable packaging, and organic, soy-based inks.
🧃 Portable & travel-friendly. Fits in your pocket!
✳️ Recommended Age: 14-17+
How to Use This Deck
This deck fits naturally into your family life, helping you stay connected with your teen as they navigate their journey toward independence.
🦅 Take the First Step: If communication feels strained, start by leading with vulnerability. Let your teen choose a question and answer it yourself first, assuring them there's no pressure to respond. By sharing openly first, you model authenticity and create a safe space. As your teen sees you as human, they're more likely to share on their own terms.
🫶 Parents + Teenagers Bundle: Consider pairing this deck with Parents Are Human for a richer connection. Begin with the Parents deck to let your teen get to know you better. Share your stories and experiences, then transition to the Teenagers deck as they become more comfortable. This approach builds trust and mutual respect before exploring topics focused on them.
💡 Create a Ritual: Consistency fosters trust. Use the cards during meals, downtime, or car rides to deepen your connection over time.
When This Deck Can Help
📵 Tech-free mealtimes
💞 Heart-to-hearts during downtime
📚 Study breaks to unwind and connect
🚙 Car rides and family trips
🎁 Holiday, birthday, or graduation gift
Start small, stay patient, and lead with empathy. Transform your relationship with your teen, one conversation at a time!
PRODUCTS FOR EVERY RELATIONSHIP
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I love that these questions are conversation starters between parents and their kids.
TheAre Human series help bring structure and spark the conversation. They have been helpful in my personal relationships with partners, teens, and parents. Great product.
This was amazing, it helped me connect with my teenage sister on a different level. I recommend to parents or older siblings wanting to connect
Great conversation starters!!!
Frequently Asked Questions
What is Teenagers Are Human?
Teenagers Are Human is your guide to navigating the exciting rollercoaster of your teen's world in High School (Grades 9-12). With 140 insightful questions and activities, this deck helps you:
● Understand your teen’s perspective and needs
● Strengthen your bond while respecting their individuality
● Navigate important conversations, from independence and decision-making, to mental health, values, and future goals
Co-created with families, teachers, and counselors, this deck is designed to help you nurture your teen's independence while developing a strong, supportive bond.
Whether you're working to bridge the gap or making sense of their evolving journey, this deck empowers you to stay engaged and make your teen feel heard, one conversation at a time.
How do I use this deck?
This deck fits naturally into your family life, helping you stay connected with your teen as they navigate their journey toward independence.
🦅 Take the First Step: If communication feels strained, start by leading with vulnerability. Let your teen choose a question and answer it yourself first, assuring them there's no pressure to respond. By sharing openly first, you model authenticity and create a safe space. As your teen sees you as human, they're more likely to share on their own terms.
🫶 Parents + Teenagers Bundle: Consider pairing this deck with Parents Are Human for a richer connection. Begin with the Parents deck to let your teen get to know you better. Share your stories and experiences, then transition to the Teenagers deck as they become more comfortable. This approach builds trust and mutual respect before exploring topics focused on them.
💡 Create a Ritual: Consistency fosters trust. Use the cards during meals, downtime, or car rides to deepen your connection over time.
When This Deck Can Help
📵 Tech-free mealtimes
💞 Heart-to-hearts during downtime
📚 Study breaks to unwind and connect
🚙 Car rides and family trips
🎁 Holiday, birthday, or graduation gift
Start small, stay patient, and lead with empathy. Transform your relationship with your teen, one conversation at a time!
What's in the box?
✔️ 110 Question Cards spark deep conversations that inspire connection, compassion, and vulnerability.
✔️ 30 Activity Cards add elements of courage and play into the experience.
✔️ Start with Level 1 (light side). Go to Level 2 (dark side) when it feels right.
✔️ Use the Check In and Go Deeper cards to adjust the level of vulnerability, ensuring everyone feels comfortable as you dive deeper.
✔️ Instructions & Best Practice Guide Cards to make the most out of your quality time together.
✔️ Lifetime Digital Access (Available Immediately) to all of the above.
❇️ Premium 1,200 GSM box & matte laminated to last for years to come.
♻️ Eco-friendly, 100% recyclable packaging, and organic, soy-based inks.
🧃 Portable & travel-friendly. Fits in your pocket!
✳️ Recommended Age: 14-17+
How long will shipping take?
We ship all orders within 24 hours of your purchase; same-day if ordered by 3 pm PT Mon-Sat. 📦
Domestic orders within the United States typically arrive within 1-5 days of shipping (depending how far you are from where we ship—San Francisco, CA), with many faster options available at checkout.
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Orders outside the US usually arrive within 1-3 weeks.
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What if I decide it's not for me?
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