Partners Are Human (Couples Edition)

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1. Free questions exist, and we hope you try them

More meaningful conversations is our whole mission. We made our decks because the free questions we found online or tried generating with AI, and even the decks we paid for, never hit the spot. The kind of conversation you never forget comes from spending an unreasonable amount of time writing and rewriting with real humans. It's what we do best.

2. Years of research and real-world testing

We hand-write every card with experts who test them with their clients, and hundreds of playtesters who use them with the people in their lives. We try to make every reprint better based on customer feedback we continuously collect.

3. Informed by neuroscience and over $50,000 in programs and therapy

In the last decade we've personally gone through more than $50,000 in inner work programs, workshops, and therapy. Some of what we've learned from:

– Cognitive and behavioral neuroscience

– Internal Family Systems (IFS)

– Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

– Nonviolent Communication (NVC)

– Emotional inquiry and executive coaching

– Social and emotional learning (SEL)

– Meditation and body awareness

– Grief counseling

We draw on all of it in every card we write.

4. Made to last 1 to 2+ years

Our favorite way to use a deck is one card a week. I did this with my parents for a year, one question a week on a call, and it felt like we made more progress in getting closer than potentially decades on our own. A dinner out for two can cost $60 to $90, once. A deck used weekly for a year is only $0.75 a week.

5. Made with love and care by a small family business

We have no outside investors, so we spend extra on what we care about: recyclable and reusable packaging, 1,200 GSM boxes, matte-laminated cards, Pantone colors, and organic pigments. My mom and dad pack every order by hand, and we regularly donate decks to nonprofits and community organizations.

6. They cost less the more you add

One deck is $39. Any four are $78 ($156 separately), or $19.50 each, so you can have these conversations with everyone in your life.

The Partners Are Human deck is thoughtfully designed for couples at any stage of their relationship, whether you’re just starting out or have been together for years. We’ve meticulously crafted each prompt to cater to a wide range of dynamics and comfort levels, ensuring that every couple can find value and deepen their connection.

– Start with lighter topics like first impressions, favorite moments, and daily appreciation

– Move into sharing dreams, values, and life experiences

– Explore vulnerability around fears, challenges, and growth

– Connect through physical and emotional intimacy in comfortable ways

We've carefully crafted prompts that:

– Honor different comfort levels and relationship stages

– Respect various cultural backgrounds and values

– Balance fun memories with meaningful reflection

– Mix quick conversations with deeper discussions

– Include both emotional and practical aspects of relationships

– Combine conversation with interactive activities

Whether you're looking to spark new conversations or deepen existing connections, each prompt creates a safe space to share, learn, and grow together at your own pace.

We make these decks so you can ask the questions you would otherwise never get to, and try things you would not have thought to try. Each one touches on different topics, and you'll get something different out of each. That's why we recommend bundling them.

– Loving Is Human. What do you notice about the way you date? Reflections on your patterns, what you truly want, and what you've learned about love and relationships.

– Partners Are Human. Who have you both become? The person you're with isn't the person you met, and neither are you.

– Intimacy Is Human. How deeply are you willing to be known? You'll say what you want, say the things you've never said out loud, and learn how to find your way back after a difficult time.

– Marriage Is Human. How do you build a life together? You'll talk about money, family, big life decisions, and have renewal rituals to check in with each other regularly.

Unlike traditional conversation decks, Partners Are Human is thoughtfully crafted as a complete connection toolkit:

1. Beyond Just Questions: We're the only connection deck combining both conversation prompts and physical activities, helping couples explore all dimensions of intimacy—from playful moments to deep emotional sharing.

2. Expert-Crafted, Community-Refined: Each card is developed with relationship counselors and mental health professionals, then tested and refined through real couples in our community. We regularly update our deck based on customer feedback, making each print a better version than the last.

3. Mindful Communication Tools: Unique to our deck are special "Check In" and "Go Deeper" cards that let you control the pace of vulnerability and connect in a healthy and empathetic way. Like having a relationship coach in your pocket, our guide cards help you navigate conversations with intention and care.

4. Built with Care, Made to Last:

– Premium two-part box with velvety matte finish

– Sturdy 1,200 GSM cardboard construction

– Soy-based inks and organic pigments

– 100% recyclable materials

– Eco-friendly packaging

Fast! We ship in-stock orders within 1 business day, and the same day if you order by 3 pm PT, Monday through Saturday.

In the US, orders usually arrive 1 to 5 days after they ship, depending on where you live and the shipping option you choose. Need it sooner? Faster options are available at checkout. Outside the US, orders usually arrive in 1 to 3 weeks.

Shipping is free in the US and Canada when you order 2 or more decks. We also ship to over 230 countries and territories, and our decks have reached people in over 100 countries!

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