"My wife and I play a few question cards nearly every night. Well worth it. I've had cards come back up that allows us to really dig deeper to find other answers. Highly recommend."
James Savage
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Explore the depths of your connection. Grow closer with every conversation.
140 essential questions & activities for every couple, co-created with love by our community and relationship professionals.
Discover each other's inner world
Dive into deep conversations with ease
Build lasting trust and intimacy
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About Partners Are Human
Partners Are Human is a connection deck designed to transform your romantic relationship.
Just like Parents Are Human, our flagship connection deck for intergenerational families, this deck has been thoughtfully co-created with our global community. In partnership with real couples and mental health professionals, we've curated the most impactful prompts and activities from $20,000+ worth of personal development programs to create this beautifully designed connection guide for you and your significant other to build lasting intimacy together.
✔️ 100 Question Cards spark deep conversations that inspire connection, compassion, and vulnerability.
✔️ 40 Activity Cards add elements of courage and play into the experience.
✔️ Start with Level 1 (light side). Go to Level 2 (dark side) when it feels right.
✔️ Use the "Check In" and "Go Deeper" cards to adjust the level of vulnerability, ensuring both partners feel comfortable as you dive deeper.
✔️ Instructions & Best Practice Guide Cards to make the most out of your quality time together.
✔️ Lifetime Digital Access (Available Immediately) to all of the above.
Ways to Use This Deck
⚡ Get Started Fast: Just text or say, “I have a question for you!”
💡 Make It a Ritual: Pair a card with weekly routines for lasting connection.
Take this portable deck with you to start a conversation anytime, anywhere. Here are some of our favorite use cases:
🎁 Surprise gift for your partner or a couple
🍝 Dive in during your next meal together
☕ Start your morning ritual with reflection
🛌 Wind down & connect before bedtime
💞 Spice up date night with a new activity
👫 Enrich double dates with couple friends
📱 Text each other questions when apart
🧺 Turn daily errands into conversations
🚗 Pull a card on any car ride or road trip
🏖️ Hikes, weekend getaways, vacations
🎂 Birthdays, anniversaries, holidays
Use this deck once a week for 1+ years!
"My wife and I play a few question cards nearly every night. Well worth it. I've had cards come back up that allows us to really dig deeper to find other answers. Highly recommend."
James Savage
Verified Customer
True love isn't found. It's made. 💙
🔮 Uncover Your Love Story
Discover new layers of your partner’s inner world to fall deeper in love, no matter how long you’ve been together.
🎯 Tough Topics Made Easier
Our prompts help you lean into vulnerability with ease, turning even difficult topics into opportunities for deeper connection.
🫂 Therapy Techniques at Home
The only connection deck with proven couples therapy activities based on decades of research to build lasting trust & intimacy.
🌅 Perfect for Busy Lives
Connect in just a few minutes—anytime, anywhere—and turn ordinary time together into a ritual of meaningful connection.
💭 Craving a deeper connection? You're not alone.
It’s normal to feel stuck in the same old patterns and lose touch with each other in the routines of life.
Partners Are Human is a guide to help you break free and awaken the magic of rediscovering each other on the adventure of life.
🪴 Build the foundation of a lasting relationship.
"Go Deeper" & "Check In" cards invite you to set the pace of vulnerability
Guide Cards offer proven suggestions for deeper sharing & listening
Lifetime Digital Access lets you use our cards anywhere, anytime
Premium 1,200 GSM & matte laminated to last for years to come
140 cards co-created with ❤️ by real couples.
50 - Level 1 Questions to ease into meaningful conversations
50 - Level 2 Questions to inspire heart-to-heart dialogues
20 - Level 1 Activities to quickly spark connection
20 - Level 2 Activities to deeply nurture trust and intimacy
What Our Customers Say
"Worth every penny! Such a great way to have conversations with your partner that you might not otherwise have."
James Beck
Verified Customer
"Highly recommended, especially if couples therapy is out of reach."
Hannah Brooks
Verified Customer
"Such an amazing tool to deepen a relationship while enlightening w/ new revelations. Would recommend to anyone."
Danny Lee
Verified Customer
Customer Reviews
I’m devastated that I don’t see a polish version yet- I’m dying to get this for my mother and I.
Hi Dabski,
I'm absolutely delighted to share that we have an English + Polish edition of Parents Are Human now!! You can find it in the language dropdown.
We spent this past year working with over two dozen familes to create our Russian, Brazilian Portuguese, German, and Polish editions and we couldn't be more proud to be serving these communities now.
Your request made this possible so I wanted to reach out right away to let you know and to thank you. 🙏❤️
Much love,
Joseph Lam
My parents lived through a chaotic time in China’s history, but they never really talked about it until we started playing with these cards. What a wonderful thing it was to learn new things about my parents. My mother mentioned that she really appreciated that it was the first real conversation we’ve had. Hopefully, it won’t be the last. I can’t recommend these enough.
I'm so happy to come across this game. Initially, I meant to use it so we could have Grandma talk more about her history, but I found that I was also sharing my story with my kids. It was such a gratifying experience to feel heard. I also love that it's fun and the kids don't feel like I'm making them listen to our stories. Good way to get them off their devices and open up about themselves, too!
Wonderful! The transliteration was great for the hindi. The questions were both fun and sentimental. There was natural conversations happening after each person’s response. This game helps people feel seen and heard. Beautiful idea! This game will be a staple at family parties.
It was so nice to sit and talk with my mom about her experiences as a little girl. My sister and I recorded her reading the questions in Thai and answering them in English. It was quite special.
I bought the Parents are Human & Partners are Human pack. So far me and my partner have gotten to know so many special things about each other because the cards spark up new conversations in our decade old relationship.
Fun and makes my family slow down and appreciate life
I highly recommend this card game to anyone who is interested in connecting or reconnecting with their families.
While I purchased the Thai to English version to connect with my mother, I have played this game with my English speaking partner and other family members, as well.
The game is incredibly versatile and sparks conversations beyond its initial prompts; it has been an investment into my family's well-being and mental health!
Tried at Christmas with grandma and it was fun and a learning experience to see how everyone reacted - and their response to her.
I loved this game! I felt like I learned so much about my parents and got them to tell me stories that I otherwise would not have asked them about. This game reminds me of We’re Not Really Strangers but it’s focused more on how you connect with your parents which I appreciated. 5 stars!!!!!
Frequently Asked Questions
What is Partners Are Human?
Partners Are Human is a connection deck designed to transform your romantic relationship.
Just like Parents Are Human, our flagship connection deck for intergenerational families, this deck has been thoughtfully co-created with our global community. In partnership with real couples and mental health professionals, we've curated the most impactful prompts and activities from $20,000+ worth of personal development programs to create this beautifully designed connection guide for you and your significant other to build lasting intimacy together.
✔️ 100 Question Cards spark deep conversations that inspire connection, compassion, and vulnerability.
✔️ 40 Activity Cards add elements of courage and play into the experience.
✔️ Start with Level 1 (light side). Go to Level 2 (dark side) when it feels right.
✔️ Use the "Check In" and "Go Deeper" cards to adjust the level of vulnerability, ensuring both partners feel comfortable as you dive deeper.
✔️ Instructions & Best Practice Guide Cards to make the most out of your quality time together.
✔️ Lifetime Digital Access (Available Immediately) to all of the above.
How do I use this deck?
⚡ Get Started Fast: Just text or say, “I have a question for you!”
💡 Make It a Ritual: Pair a card with weekly routines for lasting connection.
Take this portable deck with you to start a conversation anytime, anywhere. Here are some of our favorite use cases:
🎁 Surprise gift for your partner or a couple
🍝 Dive in during your next meal together
☕ Start your morning ritual with reflection
🛌 Wind down & connect before bedtime
💞 Spice up date night with a new activity
👫 Enrich double dates with couple friends
📱 Text each other questions when apart
🧺 Turn daily errands into conversations
🚗 Pull a card on any car ride or road trip
🏖️ Hikes, weekend getaways, vacations
🎂 Birthdays, anniversaries, holidays
Use this deck once a week for 1+ years!
What kinds of relationships is this deck designed for?
The Partners Are Human deck is thoughtfully designed for couples at any stage of their relationship, whether you’re just starting out or have been together for years. We’ve meticulously crafted each prompt to cater to a wide range of dynamics and comfort levels, ensuring that every couple can find value and deepen their connection.
Start with lighter topics like first impressions, favorite moments, and daily appreciation
Move into sharing dreams, values, and life experiences
Explore vulnerability around fears, challenges, and growth
Connect through physical and emotional intimacy in comfortable ways
We've carefully crafted prompts that:
Honor different comfort levels and relationship stages
Respect various cultural backgrounds and values
Balance fun memories with meaningful reflection
Mix quick conversations with deeper discussions
Include both emotional and practical aspects of relationships
Combine conversation with interactive activities
Whether you're looking to spark new conversations or deepen existing connections, each prompt creates a safe space to share, learn, and grow together at your own pace.
What is the recommended age for using this deck?
We recommend Partners Are Human for adults aged 18 and older due to some sensitive topics and mature themes.
The content of this game is designed to facilitate deep, meaningful conversations and activities that may not be suitable for younger audiences.
IMPORTANT NOTICE:
We would like to inform our beloved customers that a printing error has occurred on some of our Partners Are Human decks printed in early 2024. The recommended age range was mistakenly printed as 13-100+ when it should have been 18-100+. Decks printed later in 2024 have the corrected age recommendation.
We sincerely apologize for any confusion this may have caused and deeply appreciate your understanding. If you have any questions or concerns, please feel free to reach out to us directly over our live chat or email us at hello @ parentsarehuman.com.
Thank you so much for your continued support.
What makes this different from other card decks?
Unlike traditional conversation decks, Partners Are Human is thoughtfully crafted as a complete connection toolkit:
1. Beyond Just Questions: We're the only connection deck combining both conversation prompts and physical activities, helping couples explore all dimensions of intimacy—from playful moments to deep emotional sharing.
2. Expert-Crafted, Community-Refined: Each card is developed with relationship counselors and mental health professionals, then tested and refined through real couples in our community. We regularly update our deck based on customer feedback, making each print a better version than the last.
3. Mindful Communication Tools: Unique to our deck are special "Check In" and "Go Deeper" cards that let you control the pace of vulnerability and connect in a healthy and empathetic way. Like having a relationship coach in your pocket, our guide cards help you navigate conversations with intention and care.
4. Built with Care, Made to Last:
Premium two-part box with velvety matte finish
Sturdy 1,200 GSM cardboard construction
Soy-based inks and organic pigments
100% recyclable materials
Eco-friendly packaging
How long will shipping take?
We ship all orders within 24 hours of your purchase; same-day if ordered by 3 pm PT Mon-Sat. 📦
Domestic orders within the United States typically arrive within 1-5 days of shipping (depending how far you are from where we ship—San Francisco, CA), with many faster options available at checkout.
Orders outside the US usually arrive within 1-3 weeks.
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Free shipping to Canada with 2+ products 🇨🇦
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Every order is hand-packed by my Mom & Dad then delivered to the post office with the utmost love and care. 🫶
What if I decide it's not for me?
Our Happiness Guarantee is simple: we offer free returns on all products purchased on this website within 30 days and a 100% refund, no questions asked.
If you have a problem with your order (shipping mishaps, damaged/incorrect products, etc.), we will solve it, whatever it takes. Just reach out.
Thank you for your trust and support.
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