Children Are Human (Ages 7-10+)

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1. Free questions exist, and we hope you try them

More meaningful conversations is our whole mission. We made our decks because the free questions we found online or tried generating with AI, and even the decks we paid for, never hit the spot. The kind of conversation you never forget comes from spending an unreasonable amount of time writing and rewriting with real humans. It's what we do best.

2. Years of research and real-world testing

We hand-write every card with experts who test them with their clients, and hundreds of playtesters who use them with the people in their lives. We try to make every reprint better based on customer feedback we continuously collect.

3. Informed by neuroscience and over $50,000 in programs and therapy

In the last decade we've personally gone through more than $50,000 in inner work programs, workshops, and therapy. Some of what we've learned from:

– Cognitive and behavioral neuroscience

– Internal Family Systems (IFS)

– Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

– Nonviolent Communication (NVC)

– Emotional inquiry and executive coaching

– Social and emotional learning (SEL)

– Meditation and body awareness

– Grief counseling

We draw on all of it in every card we write.

4. Made to last 1 to 2+ years

Our favorite way to use a deck is one card a week. I did this with my parents for a year, one question a week on a call, and it felt like we made more progress in getting closer than potentially decades on our own. A dinner out for two can cost $60 to $90, once. A deck used weekly for a year is only $0.75 a week.

5. Made with love and care by a small family business

We have no outside investors, so we spend extra on what we care about: recyclable and reusable packaging, 1,200 GSM boxes, matte-laminated cards, Pantone colors, and organic pigments. My mom and dad pack every order by hand, and we regularly donate decks to nonprofits and community organizations.

6. They cost less the more you add

One deck is $39. Any four are $78 ($156 separately), or $19.50 each, so you can have these conversations with everyone in your life.

Children Are Human was originally developed for ages 7–10+, but many families have shared that it works beautifully with younger children as well.

Depending on your child’s curiosity, comfort level, and reading ability, the cards can be a meaningful experience for children younger than 7.

For example, if your child isn’t able to read the cards yet, many parents simply read them aloud and let their child respond in their own way.

Here’s what some families have shared:

“I love these cards. My kids aren't even 7 yet. I have a 4 yr old and a 6 yr old and they both beg for "question time!" We've already gone through the questions and I had to shuffle them! Perfect for our commute time!” – Morgan Craig

“We played the game with our 5 & 7 year old and it brought us such insight into them. A common theme with all their answers was how much they loved their family, which was heartwarming to hear. I am so glad I decided to buy this! We decided we will have a family sit down dinner every Sunday and use the cards together.” – Jennifer Bradburn

“This helped unearth some gems from my 6 year old like his most favorite things that makes him feel loved was family outings.” – Reona Kumagai

Every child develops differently. If your child enjoys conversation, imagination, or sharing their thoughts, the deck can be a meaningful experience at a younger age with adult guidance.

We plan to officially update the age recommendation soon.

Start with the deck that fits your child's age right now. Each one is written for a different stage, and you'll get something different out of each. If you have kids at different ages, or want the next deck ready as they grow, we recommend bundling them.

– Children Are Human (Ages 7-10+, or 5+ if you read the cards aloud). What is your child wondering about? Discover their unique voice and inner world, from school and friends to their biggest wishes.

– Preteens Are Human (Ages 11-13+). Who is your preteen becoming? Support their evolving sense of self and keep the conversation going as their answers get shorter.

– Teenagers Are Human (Ages 14-17+). How does your teen see the world now? Understand their perspective, from independence and decision-making to values and future goals.

– Families Are Human (Ages 5+). What stories has nobody thought to tell? A deck for the whole table, kids to elders.

– Parents Are Human (19 Language Editions). How well do your kids know your story? Have them ask you the questions, or both answer the same card. The bilingual editions double as a language-learning tool for immigrant and multilingual families.

– Parenting Is Human. What kind of parent do you want to be? Mostly for you, on your own, with a few cards to share with your kid.

Unlike traditional conversation decks, Children Are Human is a complete connection toolkit for you and your child:

1. Beyond Just Questions: 100 questions spark connection, empathy, and reflection, and 40 activities invite play, courage, and shared experiences.

2. Made with Families and Counselors: The deck was co-created with loving families and professional counselors, and reviewed by a licensed therapist. Every time we reprint it, we try to improve it based on the feedback we get.

3. Go at Your Child's Pace: Start with Level 1 (light) and move to Level 2 (deeper) when it feels right. Special "Check In" and "Go Deeper" cards help you adjust the emotional depth together.

4. Built with Care, Made to Last:

– Premium two-part box with velvety matte finish

– Sturdy 1,200 GSM box, matte laminated

– Cards matte-laminated on both sides to last

– Organic, soy-based inks

– 100% recyclable packaging

Rigorously tested to be kid-safe: passed independent lab testing to the US toy safety standard for lead, heavy metals, phthalates, flammability, durability, sharp edges, and small parts

Fast! We ship in-stock orders within 1 business day, and the same day if you order by 3 pm PT, Monday through Saturday.

In the US, orders usually arrive 1 to 5 days after they ship, depending on where you live and the shipping option you choose. Need it sooner? Faster options are available at checkout. Outside the US, orders usually arrive in 1 to 3 weeks.

Shipping is free in the US and Canada when you order 2 or more decks. We also ship to over 230 countries and territories, and our decks have reached people in over 100 countries!

My mom and dad pack every order by hand. During the holiday rush, our wonderful partners in Tennessee help us ship some orders.

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